Saturday, December 15, 2007

December Happenings....

My friend Agatha and her family (husband + cutest little girl in the world) came to visit last weekend. After speaking about blogs with her...how awkward/weird/crazy it feels to share anything too personal...I am not sure how much I want to share about the weekend:) BUT, I can say, it was so fun to have them here with us. It went by fast, and we didn't do a ton of stuff, but not doing a lot and just spending quality time together is probably what made it so nice. Lots of laughter, in part thanks to the cute little girl referenced above:) Lots of eating. Lots of talking. I want to live next door to her:(

Today I got my hair cut and highlighted. For the price, I could have flown Derek and I to California to visit. You decide if I am joking or exaggerating or not....I do live in New York. Some things are super cheap, some things not so much. But, it was a better highlight job than the last. In September, I couldn't get in to my regular place before my friend Mieke's wedding, so I went somewhere new. The cut was great, but the highlights came back a little bit orange in certain streaks. It wasn't bad, just not how I like it. But my hair looks all back to normal now and it was soooo relaxing. Then I went and bought a dresser/changing unit combo for the baby's room. I really like it and I should be able to fit lots of stuff into it. When I went to buy it, I walked through the farmer's market at Union Square -- which during the holidays is also a craft market. Literally, they have about 200 booths of stuff set up. Some of it is really nice, other stuff you can definitely pass on. But I realized that I SHOULD have taken Agatha & her family there. Ag -- you would have liked it. Well, as long as we could have gone when it wasn't so crowded. But they have so much stuff that I think you would have liked. And I thought your sister could sell her purses there -- that was my first thought:)

Tonight a close friend of ours is having a Christmas party. We've had one the past two years, but didn't put one together this year. And, it would have paled in comparison to this one. He (our friend) rented out the "Milk and Cookies" bakery in the West Village from 9-12 so we have the whole place to ourselves....cocktails, christmas cookies, and caroling is what he is offering. Hopefully, the caroling he just threw in there b/c it sounded good. I don't mind holiday music in the background, but I don't think I am up for live carols in a small space. But it should be fun. And, I bought new corduroys that actually FIT (they are on me now) that I am actually excited to wear. This is monumental. The past month I have been wearing clothes that cover me, but that I don't particularly love. Hand me down maternity clothes (which I APPRECIATE, given how expensive everything is!) or regular clothes that still fit, but just not quite the same.

My Gestational Diabetes test came back with a reading of 121. The doctor is not going to have me take the follow up 3-hour test, as she says it just as easily could have been 120 or 119 (120 being the cut off). I'll just take the 1-hour test again in a couple weeks to make sure it doesn't change. I explained that between the time I took the test and when I saw her for the results, I think I went on a sugar binge b/c I was afraid I wouldn't be able to have dessert the rest of the pregnancy (or, if my husband has his way, because he would get worried if I had gestational diabetes, the rest of my life). She laughed at me. Hard. She also called me "quite the pisser" -- as during the 24-hour urine test I took produced more urine than any reading she has ever seen. Funny. But this is one reason why I like her. She has a great, encouraging, calming bedside manner, but at the same time she could be a truck-driver if not a doctor. She is a crackup. Anyway, I have 11 weeks to go. This frightens me. We have no car seat, no crib, no BABYSITTER, and basically no clue. But, I do have some really adorable, soft blankets and a burp cloth that is too pretty to use:) Not to mention lots and lots and lots of hand-me-down baby socks.

Deuce played like crazy this morning at the dog park. There were only 2 other dogs there, which is so rare, but one of the dogs he loves. A 2 1/2 year old german shepherd who plays JUST like him. They wrestled and ran like crazy, and talked to each other the whole time. (Laurie, if you are reading this, it was sort of like seeing Bear & Deuce play in California). Deuce is a quiet dog, but he likes to be a little vocal when he plays. This works well when the other dog has the same style. He was so happy. Then, on the short ride home, he fell asleep with his head out the window. It was too cute.

I go to Colorado for the holiday next Wednesday. Derek and I are betting whether my grandmother is going to tell me I look great or that I have "gotten too big" (this was a big concern of hers when I got pregnant). Really, either statement could come out of her mouth but guaranteed it will be the second sentence after she says hi.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm sure you look great (although a photo of your pregnant glowing self would be appreciated!) :)

My sister is disgustingly beautiful when pregnant - meaning that she looks EXACTLY the same everywhere (ie a petite size 0) with the exception of a belly. I, meanwhile, grew the baby first in my thighs, then my ass, then finally around week 30, in my uterus.

Never the boobs.

sigh.

Anyway, have a safe trip to see your family if you don't blog before then. And don't worry about not having stuff. I remember with Bailey, I was put on bedrest out of the blue at 32 weeks, and we didn't have anything. Not the crib, not a diaper, barely any clothes - nada. We managed to throw everything together (with me "directing" from the couch or bed) and it all worked out.

It always does. :) I'm sure it'll be great.

agatha said...

Oh I feel so honored to be a topic in your blog...we loved our time with you guys...Lillian is still talking about it...when I asked her what she would like to do for her upcoming birthday...she decided New York City was what she must do...no party at the park, no finny, just New York City...where's Nikki, where's Derek, where's Deucey?? She misses you all, and so do I! We had such a great time just hanging out...we will definitely be back...and Nikki, you look amazing, and you will be such a great mom...it all just falls into place when it needs to, so relax, and enjoy your time now...because life changes once the baby comes, in good ways! love you -ag